Your Essential Guide to Sten Dos: Joint Stag & Hen Parties
Together is always best
Stag and Hen weekends have traditionally been separate affairs. But what if you share the same friendship group? What if you want to save money? Or what if you just actually like your partner?
Enter the Sten Do (Stag + Hen). It is the latest evolution in pre-wedding celebrations, allowing couples to combine budgets, invite everyone, and have a massive "battle of the sexes" holiday.
Why Choose a Sten Do?
1. It's Inclusive: If you have mutual friends (or male friends of the bride/female friends of the groom), nobody gets left out.
2. It's Cheaper: You can book large villas or group accommodation, and you only have to arrange childcare once.
3. No "Gary" Issues: You can share a room with your partner instead of the groom's cousin Gary who snores like a tractor.
Top 5 Sten Do Destinations
If you are planning a joint party, you need a destination that offers something for everyone. Here are our top picks.
1. Budapest, Hungary
The All-Rounder.
Budapest is perfect for splitting up during the day and partying together at night. The ladies can head to one of the famous Thermal Spas for a pamper day, while the guys visit a shooting range. In the evening, reunite for a "Sparty" (Spa Party) or hire a private boat cruise on the Danube.
2. Ibiza, Spain
The Party Capital.
If you want sun, sea, and hedonism, this is it. Ibiza allows you to rent massive villas that can house the entire group. Spend the day on a private catamaran cruise with an open bar, then hit the superclubs of San Antonio at night.
3. Riga, Latvia
The Budget Friendly Option.
Riga offers incredible value. While the stags sample local beers on the hipster strip, the hens can learn to make cocktails at the Skyline Bar. For a group activity, try Bobsleighing—it’s something everyone can do together (and compete over!).
4. Tenerife, Canary Islands
Year-Round Sun.
Perfect for winter weddings. You can party at elegant beach clubs or visit Siam Park (the best waterpark in the world). It is relaxed, fun, and offers great group accommodation options.
5. Krakow, Poland
The Nightlife Hub.
Krakow has the highest density of bars in the world. It’s walkable, cheap, and beautiful. You can easily organize a "Battle of the Sexes" activity day with Quad Biking or Escape Rooms before hitting the Main Square for vodka tasting.